ok so i wont tell you leave him cause you dont trust him. i'm sure a lot of people on here are with someone who they dont trust and they're still there!! anyway i've been in the same situation but no with phones but with emails. to find his code you really need to look for clues in what he's told you. for example maybe he used his last of his social for his code, or his birthday maybe? or yours? to get it you have to actually have ur hands on the phone. well maybe you shouldn't act like you want to see it then when he's asleep or in the shower grab it. i found my ways around and got my info. do you know his atm pin number, maybe its the same... yea i'm sneaky too!!